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Domestic Violence Discussion
with Jennifer Landhuis


16. Question: - My sister's husband has been charged with strangulation and third degree assault. Now she and the kids are under a safe plan through CPS. If she chooses to go back to the abuser after the safe plan is lifted, will her kids get taken from her?

Answer: The CPS goal will be to ensure the safety of the children. Should your sister choose to return to her husband, CPS may choose to be involved further with the family. What that involvement looks like will depend on the assessment of the danger to future injury to the children. Studies have shown that there is an overlap in intimate partner violence and child abuse and CPS may take this into consideration. It may depend on the age of the children and their ability to be able to access help should another incident happen.

I would discuss your fears with your sister but ultimately, the decision and the consequences of that decision are hers. She is the expert in her own life and the choice has to be up to her whether to return to her partner. It would be wise to create a safety plan with the children if they are old enough.


Questions:
  1. Sister is married to abusive man. What can we do?
  2. Husband threatening to declare wife insane and get custody of children if wife leaves him
  3. If my husband rapes me and promises to not do it again, will he?
  4. Husband wants me to drop charges. Should I?
  5. My wife filed for divorce. Are there any success stories about an abuser changing?
  6. Husband with anger and control issues
  7. Pressured to drop charges and now Crime Victims want their compensation back.
  8. My daughter needs help but won't accept any or leave her boyfriend. What can I do?
  9. Sister has financially abusive husband
  10. Child has aggressive behavior
  11. My husband raped me 4 months ago. Is it too late to say something?
  12. Better for the children to stay or leave?
  13. How do I breaking the cycle of violence for my teenage sons?
  14. Possible to be in a non-violent relationship if you are a battered woman?
  15. Women's rights after filing a police report
  16. CPS Safe Plan - Can sister lose her children if she goes back to abuser?
  17. Reporting Abuse Years Later
  18. Mother-in-Law Possible Threat to Life
  19. Should I Leave?


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